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Tuesday, December 27, 2005

Merry Xmas from Glendale CA

We had a nice quiet Christmas... These were taken in our living room on

Christmas day with our fresh Noble Fir 7ft Christmas Tree that we

picked out and carried ourselves! I also posted a picture of our

fireplace. Doesn't it look like a Nescafe commercial? hehehe All these

decorations were personally handcrafted by moi! Its therapeutic

y'know....
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Thursday, December 15, 2005

My hubby's Editorial for Bono's ONE CAMPAIGN Magazine

Written by Michael Sutton
Editorial: Kenya

The clock is ticking a countdown of death.

As America and its allies spend billions of dollars to protect Iraq, whose population largely wants us to leave, not much is being done to save the millions of people who are truly suffering in Kenya. This is not a terrorist nation, not anything that would threaten our security. But what hypocrites are we to say that we are in Iraq to spread the word of democracy’s greatness when 500 people are dying every day in Kenya, and we act as if it’s not as important as the war in Iraq, which we started ourselves.

We call ourselves “the good guys.” While the heroism of our troops is unquestionable, our motives are not. The money that has been spent to kill insurgents in Iraq could have been used to try and save lives in Kenya. Unfortunately for Kenya, its residents are black and poor. Let’s be blunt here. If Kenya was occupied by whites or had large amounts of wealth, oil or other valuable natural resources, there wouldn’t need to be a One campaign or even this editorial.

The AIDS virus is killing an average of 500 people daily in Kenya, according to Agence-France Presse. However tragic that is – and it is a chilling, depressing statistic – the problems in Kenya dig deeper beneath the skin. It is a country that has, in many ways, not been able to keep up with technological advances, even the most basic items that many people take for granted. There is a forgotten storyline in the Kenya crisis, one that is also creating tremendous suffering for its people right now and in the future.

Pastor Alberto Cordero of WORD International Church in Los Angeles, CA is among the concerned Americans who recently visited Kenya, and what he witnessed shocked and saddened him; it went beyond what is usually reported on the news, which has been casting a spotlight on the AIDS epidemic. In fact, Cordero saw the real root of Kenya’s heartaches, horrifying living conditions that can only spread more disease; they represent another tragedy itself, one that is hardly ever reported yet aches for an equal amount of the world’s assistance. Cordero visited places called estates, which were definitely not the glamorous structures normally associated with that term. “These areas are very poor,” Cordero recalled. According to Cordero, in Nairobi “bathrooms are shared by the community. If in a modest apartment, you still do not have the luxury of having your own bathroom. It is still shared by the tenants.” The houses themselves were as far from the definition of home as it could get; they symbolized poverty in its extreme, essentially deathbeds in the waiting. In provinces such as Eldoret, Cordero saw houses made of cow dung. “You get used to the smell after a while,” Cordero said.

Think about it: Homes produced from animal feces. Can you imagine anything more repellent? We’re spending millions of dollars to put people in body bags yet can’t afford to save a population from sleeping under cow dung.

And we call ourselves “the good guys”?

It gets worse.

According to Cordero, there is no proper drainage and waste management systems in Kenya. In other words, they are surrounded by human waste. “The smell of urine and dung is very evident,” Cordero revealed. Given that the area is extremely crowded, it doesn’t take a creative brain to illustrate the disturbing picture of a congested population enveloped by feces and urine. In addition, newspapers have replaced toilet paper and dirty water is reused to wash dishes. With no zoning and waste management regulations in place, Kenya is not a ticking time bomb but a minefield that is ready to blow.

The crisis in Kenya is larger and more complex than many have imagined; it isn’t just about AIDS. Far from it. There are a vast number of people with or without the disease who are barely clinging on to life. “The scale is of such magnitude that when one compares it to even the developing areas around the world, it would pale in comparison,” Cordero revealed. “It really feels like they have been forgotten and left to fend for themselves. It is just surprising how the people have learned to adapt to their surroundings.”

Unfortunately, a vast number of Kenyans have accepted these arrangements as a way of life, most likely because nobody has been offering them enough financial assistance or showing them how to live better. Ignored by the rest of the world, they have accepted their dismal fate. “They are used to the poverty and simplicity of life,” Cordero observed.


While large volumes of money are being sent to Kenya, the people are not receiving it quick enough. Moreover, the problems in Kenya are not going to vanish merely through monetary contributions although those are seriously needed. It needs the combined will of an entire world that, for the most part, acted as if they did not exist. To understand its scope, one needs to see the whole picture, a nation that is crying for help but has given up on waiting.

Among the solutions to Kenya’s problems is enlightenment. People need to volunteer their services in Kenya, help its population learn how to deal with their major issues. Cordero explained that, “Education and training would be critical. Helping the people think and dream again are major challenges. Believe it or not, they dream of being self-supporting and not needing to be a burden. Some of them have plans because they know their situation and have many ideas on how to improve their lot.” In other words, financial assistance isn’t enough. Giving fish to people doesn’t show them how to be fishermen. They also need to be given the opportunity to save themselves but for that they need knowledge.

If America and the rest of the G8 are supposed to be role models for the rest of the world, they should take action, show everybody why we are “the good guys” instead of simply boasting about it. Right now there is no substance to that claim; we have expressed our military power yet little of the compassion and righteous ideals we are supposed to symbolize.

The clock is ticking, and there can be no more minutes wasted.

Each second is a life passing by.

Every minute rips a family apart.

Every day casts a shadow on our guilty consciences.

Friday, December 02, 2005

NOVEMBER flew by even faster



This month even went faster!!! First of all, Pam and family drove down here to celebrate Halloween with us. Of course, being Christian, we don't really celebrate the pagan holiday that glorifies everything that is evil. We counter it by having what we call a Hallelujah celebration and talk about why we don't celebrate Oct 31 with all the gore. Its so much fun because we held it in my house this year since the Cordero's had to run to SF. The kids gather together and go trick or treating together. There was food to feed a whole tribe! I made Paella and Callos. I love cooking Spanish dishes. It was a lot of fun because we started with singing some praise songs and talking about Halloween. Then, we also had adult parlor games since it was my bday c/o our party enteratainer, Melo. Everyone's costumes were so adorable! We had superhero's running around the house. We even held a costume contest were awards and prices were given away to the best in costume. Who said xtians dont know how to have fun!

The next day was my bday. Pam, Doe, Dylan and I went on a shopping trip to the Camarillo outlet stores. We were supposed to watch U2 but things got messed up and shopping always helps aleviate the disappointment! Which is exactly what I did.

Then by a stroke of luck! Bono's publicist was able to score us 4 tickets to the Vertigo tour in Oakland on Nov 9th, which happened to be Pam's bday. So off I went with the kids in my rental for five days of relaxation in the bay area. U2 is the BOMB!!! Bono is the ultimate rockstar! I almost fainted when they came out! More on that in the PTP Blog.

I also took my kids to Pier 39 and Alcatraz which they enjoyed very much. Of course, I couldn't keep up with them because of the hike up the hill towards the cell house. The highlight of my trip was eating lunch at Vanessa's very succesful sports bar and then seeing Jovy's daughter, Sidney for the first time. Taking the MUNI to get ice cream and seeing Ian Villanueva after 8 years! Then she had RJ, she married a month ago, whom I haven't seen in around 14 years!!! My was that a fun and memorable treck down memory lane! We couldn't get up to go home!

Then there's Storm's bday a week after that trip. He decided to have no party and have a sleepover with his best buddies from the SFV church. So I was a slave to 5 11 year olds that did nothing but eat pizza, spaghetti, chips and popcorn. THey did nothing but wrestle, play videogames, and make home movies! THat was pretty fun too, although it took me more than a week to contain the damage done to the house!

I've also been busy decorating the house with my own home crafted xmas decorations. Been installing lights on the shrubbery outside. Its very exciting because I have a corner house and its such a delight decorating the outside.

Then there's thanksgiving! Which we spent at tito chito's older brothers house, Tito butch at Playa del Rey. There was food coming out of our ears! Some crispy pata that tasted delectable with a glass of red wine. And there was waking up at 4am to line up at the post thanksgiving sale. Storm and summer got their bikes and playstation and DS. Stuff I promised them a long time ago and that were well deserved because they are doing so well at school and everything esle. I can't complain. I have good kids! They have to be appreciated! Plus its always leverage to take away playing priviledges when they dont do their chores!

And that was the busy month of November. And I can't believe we're at the last month of the calendar already! This year went by really fast. A lot has happened in my life. I will summarize it in the December entry that I'll probably start tomorrow (given Im in the mood to write!) because....its already 5 am! Yes, Im an insomniac. Thats what happens with early retirement. You have no sense of time and you have the luxury of sleeping until whatever time you want so SUE ME!

Where did October go?

Wow how time flies! Its really Dec 2 now and I cant believe its been almost 3 months since my last entry! I've been reading a few random blogs and decided to enter something in my own blogs. Now, I remember why I hadn't had time to write. October was the month long celebration of our church's 15th anniverary. That's what kept me busy! I got thrown in the fire. We had major activities one after the other. It was a very tiring month but fullfilling at the same time. There is no greater joy than to be used for the furtherance of God's kingdom. I felt closer to Him and at peace with myself. That's basically what transpired in October. It was serve, serve ,serve the Lord.